Being a Dad is not about saving money. Let’s face it, kids cost you more money than not in pretty much every way. Not that it matters. The look on my daughter’s face and the sweetness in her voice when she heads off to another room then decides she wants Dad to come along and turns around and says “Come to?” is worth more money than is in all the 401(k)s combined.
Still, if there is a way to make your child’s needs a little cheaper along the way, then do it! One way to save a little dough is with rechargeable batteries. As an added bonus, it can also save you some tears.
Depending on your philosophy, you kids may have dozens (or more) of toys that use batteries. Everything from the cute puppy that barks when squeezed to the train that drives itself across the floor singing (What color animals do you see? The monkey’s brown, and the crocodile’s green) takes batteries. The worst part is that your little one has no concept of batteries and can only wonder what the problem is as those batteries wind down and die. With rechargeable batteries, you can keep reusing them instead of constantly throwing them away and hoping you have new ones.
Yes, rechargeable batteries are more expensive, so you want to buy them on sale. I’ve found that the drugstores Wallgreens and Rite Aid seem to put rechargeable batteries on sale pretty often, and usually for good prices. Watch your ads for sales and when they pop up, buy what you need plus a few more. Most toddler toys take AA batteries. The bigger ones will take C and D batteries.
As a way to save even more, get a hold of the plastic adapters that turn AA batteries into C and D batteries. These save you money in three ways. First, if you try and have four spare batteries in each size, that’s 4 AAA, 4 AA, 4 C, and 4 D or 12 total extra batteries to have laying around. With the adapters, you can cut that to just eight (4 AAA and 4 AA). The second way it saves you money is by not getting screwed over by the battery companies. And the third way it saves you money is by not needing a recharger that handles C and D batteries.
In a shameful and very deceptive marketing strategy, the major battery companies (yes both of them) cheat customers by pretending that the rechargeable D batteries are just as powerful as the non-rechargeable D batteries, but they aren’t. Battery power is measured in mAh. That stands for milli-amp hours, but don’t worry about that. A rechargeable AA battery has 2500 mAh. The rechargeable D battery? 2500 mAh. What?
Yep, it is a big fat scam. This way when your rechargeable D batteries die fast, you will say, that rechargeables don’t last as long and go back to buying non-rechargeable batteries so that the battery company can keep making a profit off of you. If you use rechargeable batteries then you don’t have to buy them so often and their profits go down.
In fact, if you cut open a rechargeable D battery, you will find a rechargeable AA battery inside a container, just like your adapter. So, do not pay more for those rechargeable D batteries. Get the adapters instead.
Now, when you hear a toy running down or it just dies, pop in your ready to go rechargeables and put the ones you took out on the charger. Then you’ll be ready for the next time little Bobby’s favorite toy, “Sound funny.”
If the last time you were in a public library you were doing research for a paper on the Civil War, it might be time to take another visit. Most cities larger than a bread box have upgraded the way their libraries look and feel as well as having dramatically increased their collections for children.
I took my daughter to the library in order to give her a new place to see and do things. As a work from home father, my daughter doesn’t go to daycare or see a nanny. So, in order to keep it fresh we frequently go places. One day I decided I would take her to the library, because she loves her books.
I was surprised at what the library had become. Tight budgets in our town have caused some cuts in the library system, but instead of cutting back on things like books, they cut back hours. Our libraries are closed one day per week, but not all libraries on the same day. So, in theory, there is always a library open nearby, if not the closest one.
The first library we went to was the main branch. I figured it would be the best. I remembered the library, like a lot of others in their 30s and 40s, from the days of high school. I remember beige metal shelves, threadbare carpet, and dusty old books published at least 10 years ago. I was in for a surprise.
The library has a HUGE children’s area. As a double bonus, that means that there aren’t any adults around to look peevish if my little one decides to squeal with excitement or voice a little frustration. The main library has a couple of children’s tables, games, puzzles, stuffed animals, and computers. Even better, it has rows and rows of books for my toddler to run up and down. There is an enormous amount of safety relief in watching your daughter run down a corridor. There is no way for her to veer dangerously off course, and if anyone is coming the other direction, you can see them far in advance.
As an added bonus, my daughter associates the library with fun. Our smaller neighborhood library has a table with those beads on wires that form a maze. When I say the word “library” my daughter says, “beads.” If we are going to a different branch, I just tell her what is there. Another common visit has shelf full of teddy bears. “No, not beads, the other one.” She pauses for a second and says, “bears.”
Everyone wants their kids to read. Making the environment of books fun is the first step. Mission accomplished there. The next step is to actually get interesting books. This is where the library shines. Any child gets bored of the same thing again and again. On the other hand, every child also develops favorites. My girl had plenty of books she loved and of course I got her more books that were similar and she loved them. One day at the library we came across a book with flaps that open. I showed her a flap and she sat mesmerized for the rest of the time opening the flaps. Needless to say, I found a few more. Now, I know she likes books with flaps. (But not pop-up books – I don’t think it registers enough that opening the page makes something happen. I think she just thinks the pages are always like that.)
The library is great for me too. Gone are the days of 5 or 10 year old books. New editions of computer books for Dreamweaver CS3 line the shelves; same thing for Ruby on Rails and others. The really great part is that the card catalog is online so I can look in advance and know exactly where I’m going so as to not spend too much time boring my daughter before we go to the kid’s section. Even better, books can be reserved online and you tell them which branch you want to pick them up at and they’ll be waiting for you at the desk.
Do yourself a favor and check out your local library. It just might be a cool FREE place to take your youngster.