Kids and New Pets

Adding pets to a family sounds pretty easy. I mean what kid wouldn’t want a cute, cuddly, new bunny, kitten, or puppy around the house. And, yet, there are a lot of gotchas to watch out for.

The biggest one is allergies. In a house with no pets, and no real chance to notice your child’s reaction to other pets, it can be very easy to overlook allergic reactions until the new pet is in your home. Of course, by then, it’s really, REALLY hard to back out of having a new pet.

Check for Pet Allergies Before Adopting

Adopting from an animal shelter is a great way to add a new pet to your family. Not only do you help and animal in need, but most shelters will put your and your potential new pet in a small room so you can see how compatible you both are.

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Intuitively, you’ll be looking at the pet the whole time. Is this the right puppy for us? Can these bunnies really be this cute all the time?

bunnies pets allergies

But, be sure and keep looking at your kids as well. In cartoons, people start sneezing the second they get near an animal they are allergic to. In real life, not all allergies are sneezing, and many allergic reactions take several minutes to get started. So, be sure to do a visual check on your kiddos not only in the beginning, but throughout your visit, and especially at the end.

Are their eyes watering or getting red? Are they starting to get the sniffles? How about a dry hacking cough? All of these are signs of possible allergic reaction.

For the best test, be sure to really observe your kids right before going into the place with the pets. If their nose is already running, a runny nose at the shelter may not indicate and allergy. Be sure your kiddo holds the animal, preferably with short sleeves. Encourage them to play with the animal like they would if the new pet was at the house.

This close contact with the animal is what will set off the allergic reaction if there is going to be one. If possible, you may want to wait until the next day before adopting. Then, watch and listen on the car ride home. Are they congested? Are they itchy?

Not being able to get a pet due to allergies is a giant bummer, but nowhere near as big of a heartbreak of giving up an animal you’ve already brought into your house and started to love. Also, keep in mind that many places won’t take back animals at all, or at least won’t refund your money, so it could be a costly hassle as well.

Hopefully, your home can be pet and kiddo free. It just might take a couple of tries to find the animal that is right for you. If nothing else, there is always fish.

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Cell Phone For Kids Xfinity Mobile

Like many people, my wife and I gave up our landline phone years ago, before we had kids. Our cell phones cover whatever we need, and frankly we don’t call much on the phone anyway. However, now that our oldest is starting to get to the age where maybe, they might be able to stay at home for a bit by themselves, we sure would like them to have a phone they could use in case they needed to get a hold of us.

In addition, it would make me feel a bit better if they could take a cell phone in their backpack when they ride to school. It isn’t far, but a quick text saying that they made it is comforting. Plus, there is always the chance that they might have a crash, or get a flat, or just flat out need a ride home for some reason.

The problem, of course, is wasteful spending. The cost of a landline phone is ridiculous. It adds nearly $30 per month to our Comcast bill, and getting it from CenturyLink ends up costing even more. A cheap cell phone might be the answer, but pre-paid cell phone minutes are weird to manage and often expire, and adding another line to our current cell phone plan costs a minimum of $20. That doesn’t sound like much, but when you are talking about a few dozen texts, and only a handful of calls, it’s pretty much a waste.

Xfinity Mobile Kid Phone

Here is where Xfinity Mobile comes in for our kid phone. Without meaning to, the company has given us the perfect option for getting our kiddo a virtually free cell phone to keep in touch with.

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In order for this to work, you already need to be an Xfinity internet customer. If you are, then the “access charge,” or, “line fee,” is free. Neither my wife, nor I, use enough data to make unlimited worthwhile, so we signed up for the “By The Gig” version. The way it works is that you pay $12 per gig, shared across your plan. The kids won’t be using any data, and unlimited talk and text is free.

So, while the kid phone is technically part of the plan, it won’t cost us anything at all, because the access charge is free, and there will be no data usage!

All that’s left is the cost of the phone itself.

Thanks to an Xfinity sale that took $200 off the price of any phone, we were able to get the lowest-level Xfinity phone for just $1.

Add it all up, and we get a no-cost cell phone for just $1.

Being a parent is all about finding the best solution, and thanks to a plan that isn’t even designed for children, we got just what we needed for a kid cell phone.

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Current Happy Meal Toy Latest Update

Good parenting skills are key to avoiding things like temper tantrums, sulking, and most importantly of all, disappointed children which leads to disappointment for parents too. As a dad, good nutrition is important to me and my kids, primarily because I know how important getting the right foods helps kids stay healthy and grow strong.

On the other hand, having fun is very important to me too. And, as a fully grown adult who not only got an occasional McDonald’s meal when I was a kid, as well as one who ate there waaaayyyy to much in his twenties, I know that a Happy Meal here and there isn’t going to hurt my kids. When you way the fun of a trip to McDonald’s to get a Happy Meal against any nutritional detriments, fun comes out way ahead.

happy meal toy box

The catch to the whole thing is that the toy in a McDonald’s Happy Meal is an important part of the fun. Nothing puts disappointment on a little kid’s face like a crummy Happy Meal toy. That’s why I always like to know in advance what the current Happy Meal toy is.

Often the toys are tied to movies, but many of those won’t end up on the list of good movies for kids.

However, that does not necessarily mean that the current Happy Meal toy is no good.

Trick To Get Better Happy Meal Toy

If you have a younger child and the McDonald’s toy sucks when you go, there is a trick you can use to get a better Happy Meal toy free and easy.

The main Happy Meal toys are almost never “suitable” for children under 3. So, if you have a kid who is under, or even near 3-years old, just ask for the “under 3 toy”. This is a special Happy Meal toy that all McDonald’s restaurants keep on hand for parents who have young kids that don’t meet the official age requirements for the main Happy Meal toy. Don’t worry about making anyone grumpy, they have to have those toys anyway, and it is all the same to them, as long as you aren’t trying to be a weasel and get two toys out of your Happy Meal.

You can also find out the latest Happy Meal toys with the McDonald’s app. And, as an added bonus, if you’ve got more than one child, the app often has coupons Happy Meals, like a Buy One Happy Meal, Get One Free coupon that is on my app for this week.

However your lunch journey ends up going, have a fun day with your kids.

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Southwest U.S. Road Trip

So, you live in Denver (or maybe not), and you already have a trip planned to Hawaii later in the year, but you don’t want to stay home for Spring Break. What are your options?

Road Trip!

Four Corners Area Road Trip

After last year’s successful road trip up to Mount Rushmore, (including right before they close nighttime arrival) we’ve decided that another road tip may be in order. Turns out at ages 10 and 7, both kiddos are ready and willing to take a long car ride to somewhere cool, and as it turns out, there is a lot of cool stuff around the Four Corners area of America.

mount rushmore photo road trip

By stopping at a few cool attractions and national monuments along the way, we avoid a too many super long drives all in the car. Turns out we’ll not only be too early for peak season (yea!), some stuff may actually still be closed. But, that means we can hit it fast and furious. If we see anything we love, we can always come back. This is a road trip, baby, not a flight half-way around the world.

What A Four Corners Road Trip Looks Like

There are, of course, a lot of ways to build a Southwest United States type of road trip. You could include some of the cities in Arizona or New Mexico. We considered Lake Powell, and Salt Lake, but in the end, this is what fit the time we wanted to work with.

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Day 1 – Colorado to Durango, Colorado

I love Durango. There isn’t any one thing you can point at and say, “This! This is the reason to come to Durango,” but, it’s one of those fun, comfy, quaint mountain towns that doesn’t take itself too seriously. It’s the kind of place where if I was a single Colorado freelance writer, instead of part of a family of four, I’d seriously consider getting a small house near town and just live online when I wasn’t out in the fresh mountain air.

Most importantly, Durango is a regular size town with some decent grub, and nice, cheap hotels for an overnight stay after a 6+ hour drive from Denver. From here, we get setup for an easy Day 2.

Day 2 – Mesa Verde, Four Corners and Grand Canyon

It takes less than an hour to get to Mesa Verde from Durango. Now, most people will tell you that you need more time to see Mesa Verde. At the risk of being a heretic, I think that really depends on how into it you are, and what you want to do.




If you just want to look at the cool, carved into the mountain, dwellings of the area, a day is more than enough time. Heck, a few hours lets you see them all from your car. Now, if you want to hike down to them, and go into a kiva, you’ll need a whole day. But, here’s the catch. Spring Break is too early for all of Mesa Verde to be open, and the coolest thing you can get to in the off-season, Spruce Tree House, is currently closed because of unstable rock.

That means, a few hours, and we are off. If my kids are mesmerized, we’ll be back.

Then, we’re off to Four Corners, which is another sub-hour drive away.

Four Corners is something you really have to want to make it worth while. There is really nothing there other than a circle in the ground and some painted lines on some concrete. Seriously, it’s nothing. But, when you grow up in Colorado, the idea of the four corners (the only place in the United States where four states come together in one place) is kind of cool.

I definitely, wouldn’t go out of my way to visit Four Corners, but it’s barely off the path between Mesa Verde and the Grand Canyon, so let’s do it while we’re already here.

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The drive from Four Corners to the Grand Canyon is a solid 3+ hours. Chances are we’ll be arriving pretty late, but if they’re still open, we’ll pop in to check it out. Grand Canyon National Park is one of those parks where you pay once per car and can come back as many times as you want in the next five days. Plus, we might just grab an annual National Parks Pass. After all, we love going down to the Sand Dunes in the fall, and Rocky Mountain National Park is RIGHT THERE from Denver.

great sand dunes national park colorado

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Day 3 – Grand Canyon

We’ll spend a whole day at the Grand Canyon. Actually, we’ll be staying in Flagstaff. It’s just a half hour away, and a lot cheaper, especially if you didn’t plan this trip out six months in advance. Thank goodness we don’t want to ride any burros. (Well, we did, but one of is only 7, and the only ride that allows them that young is on the North Rim, and the North Rim is closed until Memorial Day.)

I predict a return trip when 7 is a little older and we can ride burros down into the canyon. I’ll be sure to get on those reservations a year in advance. (Seriously, who plans a year ahead to visit the Grand Canyon? I mean, it’s not Alaska.)

Day 4 – Arches National Park / Moab

We’ll wake up in Flagstaff, AZ. If we’ve got any Grand Canyon desire left, we’ll head on up, but I’m guessing that the kids and us adults will be read to move on. And, move on we shall.

Up the road, in Utah, is Arches National Park, and the city of Moab, which you might know more for it’s mountain biking fame. Moab is a cute, if underwhelming little town (or at least it was a decade and a half ago), but it serves as a great home base for visiting Arches National Park.

While some of the arches take a multi-hour hike to get to, you can do a lot of cool stuff right off the road. We might even go out on a Jeep ride.

Day 5 – Glenwood Springs, Colorado

I haven’t been up to Glenwood Springs in a long time, but I understand it has grown out of just being the big Glenwood Spring swimming pool. Now there is another section with some hot springs, and some amusement park-style rides. We’ll skip those this round, but I’m sure we’ll pick up some information.

This time around, it’s all about swimming in the hot springs. We’ll get in late in the day and be sure to hit them at night. The next day, we’ll make it out there in the morning before the haul back to Denver, on a very reasonable 2 and half hour drive home.

That’s it. 5 Days in the Four Corners area. I’ll come back with pictures and updates when we get back home.

 

 

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Parenting and Horror Movies

One of the things that no one ever tells you about parenting is that your kids can actually be pretty darn scary in the right circumstances.

The part of your brain that goes, “Oh, no! There is something WAY bigger than the dog in the dark hallway. It’s coming right for us. We’re going to die!” is way faster than the part of your brain that goes, “Oh, hey. Look the precious, sweet four-year old is coming down the hallway.”

Another big scare tactic your average two- or three-year old pulls off is the silent stare while you sleep. It works like this: You are sleeping, often because you are exhausted, and you fell asleep on the couch. Your toddler has noticed you, and has now come over, and is staring directly into your face, right at their eye level. When you away, someone is staring at you, and that fast part of your brain freaks out.

The worst part, is that when you get startled and recoil, that usually scares them. Now, not only do you have to calm yourself down, you have to calm them down too.

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It doesn’t help that horror movies use kids to cripplingly scary effect. Remember the twin girls in the Shining. That was creepy when you were 17. It’s freaking terrifying when you see a similar look on your own 9-year old’s face while they stand motionless in the hallway. To be fair, they are probably thinking about cookies, but there is no way for you to know for SURE that they aren’t wondering why there are no axes in your house.

scary kids say scary things

The girl from The Exorcist, Damien from the Omen, all the kids in Children of the Corn, that girl in the TV in Poltergeist, about half the kids in Sixth Sense, and worst of all, the girl from The Ring, give your brain plenty of head start on seeing something terrifying, whether it is actually there or not.

Kids Say the Scariest Things

Of course, then there are the things children say. Sure some of them are really cute.

One kiddo once told me about the “sun petals” (the rays of sunlight that filter in above the curtains) that grow bigger as morning gets closer. Awwww.

Of course, there was also the time about the “funny sounds the shadow people make.” Wha-?!

The worst is during the phase where they get curious about death.

“Do I really get ALL of your stuff when you die?” Um…

“How do they know if someone killed you? You can’t tell them what happened if you’re dead.”

And so on.

The reality, of course, is that kids almost never intend to be scary. It’s all just your imagination filling in details from your own fears.

In fact, when kids actually do try to be scary it’s usually pretty funny instead. From obvious lumps hiding under the sheets, to the thunking footsteps echoing through the whole house as they desperately scramble into place behind a corner, you spend a lot more time as a parent pretending to be scared than actually being scared.

Still, when they get you, it can be enough to give you a heart attack.

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