Thinking of taking your toddler or baby to see fireworks on the 4th of July?
Don’t let preconceived notions stand in your way of fun. Yes, some kids are scared by fireworks, but not all of them. In fact, some younger children might actually do better with the loud noises and bright flashes in the sky because they don’t have the experience yet to know that such things could mean trouble for them. On the other hand, some toddlers scream and cry with the first firework shot in the air.
There is no faster way to a bummer of a night for July 4th than having spent and hour finding a good spot and waiting for the fireworks begin only to have to run to the car after two-seconds.
Here are some tips for enjoying The 4th of July Fireworks with babies, toddlers, and small kids.
Coming tomorrow, Undefeated Daddy’s Best Denver Fireworks Shows for Kids and Toddlers
This post comes out of my own disappointment. I thought I had found a really great deal on baby monitors and night vision cameras through a company called Lightinthebox.com. I’ve been looking because we recently had another child and was hoping to be able to monitor three or four rooms with a single portable monitor that I can walk around with and hand off to my wife when we change over who is watching the kids and who is working to pay the bills.
Unfortunately, this kind of arrangement is difficult to find. Regular baby monitors are usually just one camera and one monitor. If you look hard enough, you can find two cameras and one monitor, but that isn’t enough for watching a playroom and two bedrooms.
When you get to 3 camera and 4 camera systems, they tend to be security systems. That wouldn’t be bad except that they cost more and the purpose of the cameras is different such that they don’t necessarily make very good baby monitors. Also, security systems often don’t come with cameras that see in the dark, or night vision cameras. A system to monitor your child’s room when they are sleeping (or are supposed to be sleeping) is worthless without night vision type cameras.
At Lightinthebox.com I found tons of great options. So I decided to do some research. You can believe what you want but there are two things that made the difference for me.
The first is Reseller Ratings which I know from some other places where they are pretty much universally panned. Even worse is that a self-identified company official left a “review” to say that he would help and in that “review” he gave his company 5-stars. Where I come from that is a blatant attempt to improve your score fraudulently. Unfortunately for this guy, there are too many reviews for the one review to make any difference.
The second is that they are linked to / the same company as SellerKey which is pretty much universally reviled and despised in the Internet business community.
I guess I’ll have to look elsewhere.
Anyone with a good source for a multi-camera system with a single portable (not attached to a TV or computer) monitor that will allow for all 3 or 4 cameras to be observed and where those cameras come with night vision, let me know.
Otherwise, I’ll keep looking for as long as I can.
One of the most frustrating conditions for parents, especially new first-time parents, to deal with on babies and toddlers are rashes. The difficulty is that because of their nature, rashes are easy to spot and difficult to ignore. Whether it is skin redness, little spots on baby’s skin, or a rough texture on your toddlers arms or legs, rashes trigger a parent’s instinct to do something to fix it.
Unfortunately, the great majority of toddler rashes and baby rashes are non-specific skin conditions that require no real medical treatment. It is frustrating to take baby to the doctor only to hear them say that it isn’t anything to worry about, and is probably just dryness or an allergic reaction to something.
Online medical research about skin rashes on babies and kids isn’t any more help. About all anyone will find is the advice to try and figure out what is causing the allergic rash and to remove it from the baby’s environment. This isn’t as easy as it sounds and can end up causing even more consternation among parents.
Since most rashes are non-medical allergic reactions of the skin, all any parent can do to make them better is try and reduce the allergens in the child’s environment. Fortunately, this can be a relatively simple process for most skin allergies.
Whether it’s red skin, bumpy skin, or rough skin, the culprit is most often either bedding like sheets and blankets, or clothing. The most common causes of such skin reactions is the perfumes, dyes, and preservatives in laundry soaps or bath soaps and other cleaning supplies. Removing these irritants from baby’s life is actually fairly easy.
First, start by washing all of the child’s clothing AND bedding using Dreft. Other companies make laundry soaps that are supposedly as free of irritants and chemicals as Dreft is, but since there is no way of knowing whether or not the latest “allergen free” or “pure” laundry soap is in fact just as good as Dreft, don’t take the chance just yet. If you want to try a cheaper version of child laundry soap, do it later after you’ve eliminated baby’s rash and can judge whether or not the other laundry soap causes its return.
If comparing two products, always buy the one with no parabens. Parabens may or may not have a cancer risk. However, there is no doubt that parabens are a sign of cheap, low-cost, formulation and manufacturing since their only purpose is to allow a multi-year shelf life.
You can find parabens on the ingredients list. They will have names like methylparaben, propylparaben, or something similar. It doesn’t matter what the chemical name is in front, a paraben is a paraben. So anything-paraben is garbage. If you can’t find a no parabens product, try a health food store or organic food store like Whole Foods.
As a last resort, buy the product that has parabens the closest to the end of the list since ingredients must be listed from most to least by law. You’ll have to make a guess about whether having four different types of parabens lower on the list is better or worse than having one paraben higher on the list since their is no way to now how much they add up to. This is one reason why you are better off just getting something without parabens instead.
Make sure and wash everything baby uses. Otherwise, baby might still have the skin rash because of one blanket even though everything else is not causing any problems.
Be sure to wash any baby bedding including a child’s favorite blanket or wubby or whatever in HOT water. Only hot water kills dust mites which might be the cause of the child’s skin rash.
Use the second rinse feature of your washing machine to give baby’s blankets, sheets, and clothes an additional rinse. Don’t add anything like fabric softener, just get a second water rinse to ensure that everything possible is out.
Next, dry baby’s clothing and bedding without any dryer sheets or other additions to the dryer. Yes, they’ll be staticy and wrinkled, but that isn’t the primary concern for this step.
Continue to do all of your toddler’s laundry in this way so that nothing comes back into contact with him or her that.
Also, change baby’s diapers and wipes. Try using one of the Huggies brand diapers if you are using others. No matter what the label says, other diapers like Pampers have some sort of perfume or chemical in them that Huggies don’t seem to have.
To prove it, open a bag of Pampers or other diapers and put them in an enclosed space like a drawer or cabinet with the drawer or door closed. Leave them overnight. Then, open the cabinet and smell inside. You’ll get a whiff of something, and that might be what is causing baby’s diaper rash. (I haven’t experienced the same thing with Huggies, either the regular diapers or the Huggies Comfort Fit diapers.)
Also, switch to one of the “Free” diaper wipes. You want one that has no perfumes AND no dyes.
While you are at it, buy a tube of Lotrimin. Lotrimin is a fungal killer, or fungicide. Most of the really painful looking bright red diaper rashes have some component of yeast infection with them. Using the Lotrimin kills off this element.
Remember to change and wipe baby often when they have a diaper rash. Most diaper rashes are caused by the chemicals in the child’s urine. The longer they stay in contact with the skin, the more likely they are to cause a rash.
To get rid of a diaper rash as fast as possible, use non-perfumed diapers and wipes and change baby a lot. By a lot, I mean too often, maybe every half-hour, but at least every hour, whether the diaper seems full or not.. At each of these diaper changes, put on some of the Lotrimin. This will ensure that the toddler or baby’s skin gets the maximum possible amount of time without any urine chemicals on their skin and also that any yeast is killed without being able to re-spread.
When organizing kid’s toys most parents do an analysis that takes into account frequency of use, places available to put the toy, shelf space, weight, hazard, and so on. What destroys many valiant parental organization attempts is failure to take into account “trigger toys.”
Trigger toys are those that trigger a child to want another toy. In the case of toddlers, these are most often toys that have been played with as a group before, no matter how unrelated. For older children, trigger toys are often those that are part of a set or collection such as all of the toys related to a particular television show, or all of the pirates toys.
The trickier ones are the toddler toys which can be linked in a small child’s mind for reasons parents don’t even remember. However, by paying attention to what your child plays and what toys they request to go along with certain toys, you can get a good idea of what trigger toys there are.
In our house, for example, we have a dinosaur toy set with one large orange dinosaur (Reggie) one little orange dinosaur (Rodney) and an egg which opens and shuts and that Rodney fits inside of. We also have a jungle toy that has jungle animals and a veterinary hut. For whatever reason, Rodney (the little dinosaur) is always required when she plays with the jungle set. The converse is not true.
So, when we put away toys, the jungle set can go in the playroom in the basement, but Rodney needs to be down there too. Otherwise, we’ll be coming back up the stairs to get him the second she starts playing with the jungle.
Group your toddler’s trigger toys together. Also, when storing toys to make them fresh and new again, be especially sure to store trigger toys together. Otherwise, you’ll just end up pulling out the toys you just put in storage to retrieve the missing object.
The date for Father’s Day is Sunday (next Sunday, relax) June 21st this year. Flag Day is the 14th if you are wondering.
Father’s Day Gifts can be lots of fun if you take off the pressure of making is “special” or “something he will remember forever.” Look, most Dad’s like toys, electronics, tools, and other fun things. Save the memories that will last a lifetime for Mom and buy us something fun.
I don’t know whether the following statement from Fat Brain Toys is true or not, but it cracked me up:
Nothing says "I love you Dad" like a Medieval siege weapon…let him build a desktop version of a Middle Ages Catapult or Trebuchet.